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I thought now that talking "how good the talks are" will be much more informative being supplied with examples.
Let's go :).

First of all, the steps below are splitted for me, mainly.
The excellent communication is when you do not think of the steps, when you just enjoy the talk and your partner.

1. Open communication
Pretty important is to look in the eyes of your future party before you start talking. And better, smile.
So try not to approach from the back (though it's not crucial, just a recommendation).

This way your minds exchange some data which I cannot verbalize yet (though some psycho- and energy-oriented people have some explanations). The main thing here is for your party (most likely, a girl) to understand you are not a maniac, you are not going to kill or rape her, and you have something pleasant to tell her.

Next you come up. When you do, please, do not come too close. If it's not a crowdy and loud place (like a night-club, where you might touch a girl before you talk), usually a meter (3 feets) is enough for a stranger.

Good, we are close. Now we say the first phrase. Pretty important, and pretty easy.
"Hi!" / "Hello!" / "Salut!"

Look in the eyes. Do not rush trying to explain who are you :). Wait fo... (continued)

As promised, we're moving forward!

Hope that you are already going to gym and live your life proactively - learn everywhere you can, try to understand everything you don't yet, and of course, believe that you can do whatever you want, if this is good!
(distracted you? :))

Now, let's talk about the talk :).
As proverbs say, girls love with their ears. I'm sure we know a few other parts of their bodies that are loveable as well, but..
We've overcome the stone-age, and now most of the communication starts verbally.
You say "Hi, I'm -Your Name here-!", you hear "Nice to meet you, I'm Amy".

The idea is that communication is your way to what you want.
It's pretty strange (and against-the-law) to come up to a girl, take her pants off and.. you know.

So even if all we want is sex, we need to talk :). And this is good. Maybe we'll find out she's actually a guy :)).

Let me tell you a little story.
When I was young, I was pretty afraid of talking to girls.
They appeared so mature in my age of 12-14 (though they were 12-14 as well)..
Some say girls grow up faster than guys.
Wrong, dudes :).

They learn to wear masks (by the way, do you know that person means mask?) faster.
Under the mask you'll always find this warm and nice little girl that you cou... (continued)

Hi,
as promised, free seduction tips are now going live.

Actually, I thought a bit, and decided to go something like a Hitch Method (saw this movie?).
In other words, I will not teach you to seduce all the girls, having 10 girlfriend and dozens of fuck-friends, becoming a Casanova and a heart-breaker. Why, if it is possible?

Why? Well, I doubt you'd like to find out your lovely girlfriend is fucking around with dozens of other guys.
I believe that we should be treating people as we want to be treated by them.

So Today, I will talk about the very first step towards getting relationships you want with a girl/woman you want.

First thing we want is to realize we can get all the girls we want. How? Let's see :).

Girls want males. Those strong, confident, smart, reliable and loving.

In other words, to match the criteria of 99% of the females around we want to fit into characteristics above.
What else? Be ourselves.

Let's go step-by-step.

1. Strong
There are girls who say it directly, and those who don't. But never heard any girl saying the strength is not good.
So how do we become strong? Easy.
Do some sport and/or gym. Martial arts are good, but swimming, parcour and dancing are good as well.
Also sport make... (continued)

Sex Skills will be divided into sections soon, I think.
For those training with and graduates of Sex.Enhappy.com seduction training.

Yeah, right, guys (and girls :)), we'll be descussing a lot of seduction and pickup in here:

• Field Reports - where me and others will be posting the processes of seducing real girls, probably with photos, and for sure - detailed.
  We'll need you guys to rate it, which means a standard pickup FB (feedback), consisting of two things - what was good, and what could be improved.
  
  
• Strategies / Tactics - again me and friends (you) will post their methods of seducing - whole things, or parts (how to bring home, how to first kiss etc) for all of us to learn/try and improve your own seduction results ;).
  
  
• Meetings - yeah, right. We want to see you, come to your city and light it up with the most beautiful girls. SmartsSex.com together with Sex.Enhappy.com will be randomly choosing within you guys a few people per month probably, and once a month we'll fly to wherever you live to test you, practice ourself, and have fun!
  

And of course, girls, we love you, so you are welcome to join both discussions and meetings :).
We guys and you girls love each other, it's inner, so don't even think of hiding it :).

And now, have fun, and add ideas if you have any :).

Well, I think there are very many docs on a subject of "How to last longer in sex?".
It also is referred to as "How to avoid premature ejaculation?" or "What is a female orgasm?" :).

What I want to say, that sex is a lot of psychology and inner things than technics or tips and tricks. Which means that there are just some things to understand, rather than to learn to do. And ejaculation, too, belongs here :).

Firstly, recommended is try to forget that you ever will be coming at all.
Just enjoy this very second, making it last as long as you can.

That's about overall process. Just think of it :).

Next, remember girls can be pleased without using your dick at all :).
Which means, if you ever suddenly recall you can come, and you feel as you can soon, but you see your girl's not ready yet, then try the following.

Stick it out of her, and.. well, we're all different, but do what you would have done if you did not know how to have sex. Stroke, kiss, tease, caress..
Once again, forget about your dick).

Then just keep doing it :).

Maybe this seems a bit incomplete and selective, but that's what coming to mind.
If you know anymore on this, feel free :).

Having sex is great. That's what I think.
The sex is a way to express yourself together with other person or people, the way to open up and let the beast go out.

So, I suggest you all to feel as free in sex as nowhere else.


Hooray!)

Relaxation
Sex is said to be one of the most effective and safe way to relax. The effect of having sex is 20 times better than from a medical drug Valium.
By the way, kisses have a weaker, but also very relaxing effect.
Oh yep, by the way, regular people spend about 2 weeks of their life kissing. Means we spend a couple of month :).

Beards
Men's beards grow more the more sex you have. Seems like Eintstein didn't have a lot of sex :).

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Romance
Statistics shows that girls/women reading Romance Stories usually have sex twice more than those not reading :). Arguable stuff, but still :).

Fetish
They say that shoes and feet are the most "fetishable" things in common :). By the way, Quentin Tarantino loves Uma Thurman for having 42-nd feet-size (someting like 11 in NorthAmerican standards).

Mammal Gays
Scientists say that the most homosexual animal is a bat. Bats are said to have the highest level of homosexuality among mammals :).

Penetrator, The
In Guama there are guys who travel across the municipality to help young girls say bye-bye to their virginity. Moreover, they are paid for it.
(Who's with me to Guama? :))

Cheating
If you are going to go unfaithful to your wife, you'd better not do this in Hong Kong - your wife is prescribed by law to kill you for cheating. However, she has a right to do it with her hands only %).

Good luck :)

Sex has unlimited number of "types". There is no real way to classify any particular sex. But we can take out some aspects of it. For instance, the rythm of sex.

Some culutres, such as Chinese and Japanese tend to propagate slow sex.
It's more of emotions and feeling than actual sex as many Western people see it.
For instance, in this position you cannot really ride at fast speeds :)
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But if you relax and let your whole nature participate in this unity of two bodies and minds, every dime of the movement will feel as a mini-orgasm. For both of you.
I'm not an expert in slow sex yet, but I try to improve with every girl I meet :).

And now, fast sex, very common for western people. Fast sex is spanish sex, italian sex, russian sex, english sex.
When in a few instances from the time you entered her (he enters you, for girls :)), you start banging fast.
It usually looks like a rabbit sex :).

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This were two criticals - the slowest, and the fastest.
Now if we try to think of some "perfect" sex", after minutes of thinking, I guess we'll come up to the idea that sex is perfect when it seems so for both of you.
Sex is at... (continued)

Hey, people!)

I want to say about her acting in sex.
I often hear things like "she's like a doll", "she does not move" etc.

What's my point is that not so many things happen, if you do nothing that can let them happen :).

Sometimes I notice a girl I'm with is a bit passive. I see she wants sex, I feel she's not frigid at all. And once I thought - why is she like that?
And I got it.

That girl was not a sex expert (as one of our dear members is :)), she was just about loosing her virginity so far. She was simply afraid or shy doing something.
So I lied next to her, stroking her a little bit (yet dressed). Then took her hand, and put it on my chest slowly. I felt as she was shaking a bit. Then I was touching her everywhere, kissing and laughing. One more thing - I poked her as kids usually do :). Just in her belly, suddently and slightly (wasn't going to make a hole in her).
And in 5 minutes, from a log-like dolly she turned on to be the most active and agressive girl I've met, which raped me 3 times in a row just as I was a kid :).
But a funny thing - next time we met she was shy again. But this time it disappeared faster :).

Another moment is with russian girls, for example. I don't know why, but many of them think that guy should fuck them. Just like this. So when ... (continued)

Hi people!

The girls I was with were giving me blowjobs, even if that was their first time.
I heard from friends sometimes they can't get their girls to oral sex.
Here I'll try to analyze my behavior a little bit to help you get the oral pleasure you want :).
Now thinking of what I was actually doing:

- Enjoying her being near me, and telling her that
- Talking to her, stroking her, undressing her, but not jumping on her at once
- Lying aside, looking at her and talking to her
- There was something showing "I feel good with you, but we ain't going any further yet.."
- Kissing her body from time to time, but episodically, not maniacally :)

Usually they get horny from such a behavior, and start kissing and touching me. If this is it, just don't really move, try to stay cool (not always that easy :)), casting a glance down on my friend significantly :).

90% say something "you fucker!" and get there :).

If they don't, a good thing is to remember I can show her an example :).
Putting her down gently, and going down on her.. Doing it slowly, enjoying it.. well, just showing her how I want her one to be. When I get enough of her spinning and moaning, just rising up to her head, kissing her, and falling aside :).
This works in another 9.99% :).

For the rest 0.01%... just tell her :).

Hope helps).

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