1. Anal intercourse is the least frequently practiced form of anal sex.

There are many ways to enjoy the anus erotically. The most common techniques include touching the anal opening with a finger while masturbating or stimulating a partner's anus during intercourse or oral sex.

Some people enjoy the sensation of a lubricated finger -- their own or a lover's -- inserted into their anal opening and gently rotated. Others may prefer the insertion of a lubricated dildo or vibrator beyond the anal opening and short anal canal into the larger rectum. Many men, including heterosexuals, favor this form of penetration.

Oral-anal lovemaking is popularly known as rimming. Some people enjoy performing it or allowing themselves to be probed in this special way. Using a dental dam is a way to ensure safe rimming.

2. Anal stimulation, including intercourse, is not painful if done properly.

The belief that anal stimulation, especially intercourse, has to hurt is a persistent and dangerous myth. Just as pain anywhere in the body indicates that something is wrong, so is the same true of the anal area. With its high concentrations of nerve endings, the anus can produce extreme agony when it is mistreated. Yet it can also be a source of great pleasure.

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Being a gay man, many people have asked me how I can handle anal sex. First off, to be honest, I'm gay because I like guys, not because I love to have things shoved up my ass. Thus, anal sex is not gay sex. It is sex involving the anus.

This is a common misconception because many straight guys freak out at the thought of someone touching their anus. Honestly, the anus is a source of much pleasure. There's no shame in pleasure. Just realize that anal sex is not gay sex.

Also, many women are turned off about gay sex because of the intense pain that is often felt when you first start. This, ladies, is because many men are too selfish to take their time and make it good for you. Don't let a man come near your anus if you can't trust him to be slow and easy. It's important to realize that anal sex isn't just about thrusting.

Many people freak out about analingus because it seems kinda gross. Well, honestly, that just means you gotta clean up. I've found that enema bottles and/or douche bottles are great ways to clean out your rectum. Just be sure to empty the bottles and use the bottles with warm water, not enema or douche. Irrigate several times, until it comes out clean. Then clean the outside with soap and water. Your ready to go.

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As you can tell from the title, i'm bi. I want to know which do you think is the best? Men or women? With men you can have hard,raw, fun sex. With women (in my experience) you have slow love-making, don't get me wrong i do like that, but occasionally i would like something more hard, fast and raw. I have yet to find a women who would be okay with a bi threesome. I think that is my ultimate fantasy to share another man with a women, to be watched while i both make slow love and hard love. Another thing i wonder is how some completely straight women find gay porn a turn on, what does it for them? the same as it does for me? I just know that when two gay/bi men have sex it looks more hot and more sweaty, also showing the masculinity of two men, who being gay/bi are stereotyped as feminine. Straight men, well most would never think of sleeping with another man( some who get paid would) but does that show masculine quality or just the desire to sleep with other men which does not take any 'masculinity' at all, after all they do say 'take it like a man'. What are your thoughts?

A house with a garden and a swimming pool, sun, cocktails... Two sex - starved men The sub-being hot beams of the sun are toasted. Come in the pool yea then freshen up as well . . . ! : )