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I thought now that talking about how good the talks are might be much more informative being supplied with examples.
Let's go :).

First of all, the steps below are splitted for me, mainly.
The excellent communication is when you do not think of the steps, when you just enjoy the talk and your partner.

1. Open communication
Pretty important is to look in the eyes of your future party before you start talking. And better, smile.
So try not to approach from the back (though it's not crucial, just a recommendation).

This way your minds exchange some data which I cannot verbalize yet (though some psycho- and energy-oriented people have some explanations). The main thing here is for your party (most likely, a girl) to understand you are not a maniac, you are not going to kill or rape her, and you have something pleasant to tell her.

Next you come up. When you do, please, do not come too close. If it's not a crowdy and loud place (like a night-club, where you might touch a girl before you talk), usually a meter (3 feets) is enough for a stranger.

Good, we are close. Now we say the first phrase. Pretty important, and pretty easy.
"Hi!" / "Hello!" / "Salut!"

Look in the eyes. Do not rush trying to explain who are you :). Wait for her to respo... (continued)

As promised, we're moving forward!

Hope that you are already going to gym and live your life proactively - learn everywhere you can, try to understand everything you don't yet, and of course, believe that you can do whatever you want, if this is good!
(distracted you? :))

Now, let's talk about the talk :).
As proverbs say, girls love with their ears. I'm sure we know a few other parts of their bodies that are loveable as well, but..
We've overcome the stone-age, and now most of the communication starts verbally.
You say "Hi, I'm -Your Name here-!", you hear "Nice to meet you, I'm Amy".

The idea is that communication is your way to what you want.
It's pretty strange (and against-the-law) to come up to a girl, take her pants off and.. you know.

So even if all we want is sex, we need to talk :). And this is good. Maybe we'll find out she's actually a guy :)).

Let me tell you a little story.
When I was young, I was pretty afraid of talking to girls.
They appeared so mature in my age of 12-14 (though they were 12-14 as well)..
Some say girls grow up faster than guys.
Wrong, dudes :).

They learn to wear masks (by the way, do you know that person means mask?) faster.
Under the mask you'll always find this warm and nice little girl that you cou... (continued)

Sex Movies are good!

Besides exciting both guys and girls, they teach us many things :).
Not sex itself, since it's a bit awkward for me to think I'm learning to have sex, but the seduction things.

Those people are actors - the ones really wishing to look best, as in sex, as in pre-lead.
Let's think about it a bit.

First, we all learn from experience. Including sex movies, right :).
Second, our beliefs, the things we believe in, are subconsciously felt by people we are dealing with. When you are 100% sure something will work, others around start to feel the same.

And now, when you "take off" the behavior model of a guy from porn movie, strongly believing it will work for you with girls, it might very well work :).

I do not mean that taking your dick out and waving it around will make her go down on you on the street (yet it's pretty possible, by the way).
What can be useful - is the looks (eyes), the movements, the gait, the voice - all this can very good affect your own seduction skills.

So, watch Sex Movies at SmartsSex.com, and have your seduction skills boost, and let yourself be happy now!

Plan out sexual acts is pointless if emotion is not behind them. You truly do not get satisfied without emotion.
Plus it's way better. The interaction is stronger from both parties and the climax's are top notch.
There has to be passion for me. I'm a huge romantic anyways.
This is just my opinion so don't take it to seriously please.

Ok, I felt compelled to write this since I was absorbing all the good info on this site. I never get a complaint and was often told I was the best. So this is all I felt I could write about it.

First and forth most be happy to do it. Enjoy it.. If you don’t you will suck at it, period..
Start from the face and work all the way down, acting like he is a chocolate covered whatever you like chocolate covered…
Get between his legs, on your knees with your ass up. Let him focus on the small of your back and your ass. Men love this. It gets him visually stimulated while you work him over….

Once you reach his hot spot give it small kisses all the way around it slowly and loosely stroking it. Don’t leave the balls out. Give those tasty nuggets kisses and hard licks around the sides. Once he is worked up give him about 3 aggressive deep throats. Then pull it out and let your saliva roll down it getting it really wet. Use your hand to slowly stroke him while you brush the head around the inside of your jaw moving your head in a round motion. Make noise…. Sound like a hungry beast on it… Men love this too. (Don’t go to far with that though) Give some sucking action on the head. Once you feel his legs moving, and toes curling slowly move the head in round motion in... (continued)

1. Anal intercourse is the least frequently practiced form of anal sex.

There are many ways to enjoy the anus erotically. The most common techniques include touching the anal opening with a finger while masturbating or stimulating a partner's anus during intercourse or oral sex.

Some people enjoy the sensation of a lubricated finger -- their own or a lover's -- inserted into their anal opening and gently rotated. Others may prefer the insertion of a lubricated dildo or vibrator beyond the anal opening and short anal canal into the larger rectum. Many men, including heterosexuals, favor this form of penetration.

Oral-anal lovemaking is popularly known as rimming. Some people enjoy performing it or allowing themselves to be probed in this special way. Using a dental dam is a way to ensure safe rimming.

2. Anal stimulation, including intercourse, is not painful if done properly.

The belief that anal stimulation, especially intercourse, has to hurt is a persistent and dangerous myth. Just as pain anywhere in the body indicates that something is wrong, so is the same true of the anal area. With its high concentrations of nerve endings, the anus can produce extreme agony when it is mistreated. Yet it can also be a source of great pleasure.

When a lubricated finger, object or penis... (continued)

Being a gay man, many people have asked me how I can handle anal sex. First off, to be honest, I'm gay because I like guys, not because I love to have things shoved up my ass. Thus, anal sex is not gay sex. It is sex involving the anus.

This is a common misconception because many straight guys freak out at the thought of someone touching their anus. Honestly, the anus is a source of much pleasure. There's no shame in pleasure. Just realize that anal sex is not gay sex.

Also, many women are turned off about gay sex because of the intense pain that is often felt when you first start. This, ladies, is because many men are too selfish to take their time and make it good for you. Don't let a man come near your anus if you can't trust him to be slow and easy. It's important to realize that anal sex isn't just about thrusting.

Many people freak out about analingus because it seems kinda gross. Well, honestly, that just means you gotta clean up. I've found that enema bottles and/or douche bottles are great ways to clean out your rectum. Just be sure to empty the bottles and use the bottles with warm water, not enema or douche. Irrigate several times, until it comes out clean. Then clean the outside with soap and water. Your ready to go.

Now, some people find it more of a turn on to ea... (continued)

Sex has unlimited number of "types". There is no real way to classify any particular sex. But we can take out some aspects of it. For instance, the rythm of sex.

Some culutres, such as Chinese and Japanese tend to propagate slow sex.
It's more of emotions and feeling than actual sex as many Western people see it.
For instance, in this position you cannot really ride at fast speeds :)
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But if you relax and let your whole nature participate in this unity of two bodies and minds, every dime of the movement will feel as a mini-orgasm. For both of you.
I'm not an expert in slow sex yet, but I try to improve with every girl I meet :).

And now, fast sex, very common for western people. Fast sex is spanish sex, italian sex, russian sex, english sex.
When in a few instances from the time you entered her (he enters you, for girls :)), you start banging fast.
It usually looks like a rabbit sex :).

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This were two criticals - the slowest, and the fastest.
Now if we try to think of some "perfect" sex", after minutes of thinking, I guess we'll come up to the idea that sex is perfect when it seems so for both of you.
Sex is at... (continued)

as your boyfriend (gays, and girls too, i guess) is reaching climax, make sure you kiss him hard and long on the lips until he finishes. he'll feel the greatest emotional and sexual pleasure through that roller coaster ride :]

True high climax sex can only be achieved by watching, listening, and learning your partners feelings. When you listen to your woman, how she moves, acts, sounds, when your making love, and find out what she likes and dislikes, she will want to have sex all the time. The biggest problem with women I have found is that they are not really searching for Mr. Right, they're searching for someone who can give them the best orgasm they have ever felt in there life. Not saying they don't want a little romance from there man, or they don't want to be treated good, they really do, but they want that man to know what to do in the bedroom when she is finally willing to take it all off for him.