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Sex Skills Getting a Girlfriend #2.1: Talks Examples

SmarTy, 21st Nov 2008, 00:07 CET

Welcome back!

I thought now that talking about how good the talks are might be much more informative being supplied with examples.
Let's go :).

First of all, the steps below are splitted for me, mainly.
The excellent communication is when you do not think of the steps, when you just enjoy the talk and your partner.

1. Open communication
Pretty important is to look in the eyes of your future party before you start talking. And better, smile.
So try not to approach from the back (though it's not crucial, just a recommendation).

This way your minds exchange some data which I cannot verbalize yet (though some psycho- and energy-oriented people have some explanations). The main thing here is for your party (most likely, a girl) to understand you are not a maniac, you are not going to kill or rape her, and you have something pleasant to tell her.

Next you come up. When you do, please, do not come too close. If it's not a crowdy and loud place (like a night-club, where you might touch a girl before you talk), usually a meter (3 feets) is enough for a stranger.

Good, we are close. Now we say the first phrase. Pretty important, and pretty easy.
"Hi!" / "Hello!" / "Salut!"

Look in the eyes. Do not rush trying to explain who are you :). Wait for her to respo... (continued)



Sex Skills Getting a Girlfriend #2: Talks

SmarTy, 31st Oct 2008, 13:45 CET

As promised, we're moving forward!

Hope that you are already going to gym and live your life proactively - learn everywhere you can, try to understand everything you don't yet, and of course, believe that you can do whatever you want, if this is good!
(distracted you? :))

Now, let's talk about the talk :).
As proverbs say, girls love with their ears. I'm sure we know a few other parts of their bodies that are loveable as well, but..
We've overcome the stone-age, and now most of the communication starts verbally.
You say "Hi, I'm -Your Name here-!", you hear "Nice to meet you, I'm Amy".

The idea is that communication is your way to what you want.
It's pretty strange (and against-the-law) to come up to a girl, take her pants off and.. you know.

So even if all we want is sex, we need to talk :). And this is good. Maybe we'll find out she's actually a guy :)).

Let me tell you a little story.
When I was young, I was pretty afraid of talking to girls.
They appeared so mature in my age of 12-14 (though they were 12-14 as well)..
Some say girls grow up faster than guys.
Wrong, dudes :).

They learn to wear masks (by the way, do you know that person means mask?) faster.
Under the mask you'll always find this warm and nice little girl that you cou... (continued)



Sex Skills Sex Movies and Seduction

, 26th Aug 2008, 09:17 CEST

Sex Movies are good!

Besides exciting both guys and girls, they teach us many things :).
Not sex itself, since it's a bit awkward for me to think I'm learning to have sex, but the seduction things.

Those people are actors - the ones really wishing to look best, as in sex, as in pre-lead.
Let's think about it a bit.

First, we all learn from experience. Including sex movies, right :).
Second, our beliefs, the things we believe in, are subconsciously felt by people we are dealing with. When you are 100% sure something will work, others around start to feel the same.

And now, when you "take off" the behavior model of a guy from porn movie, strongly believing it will work for you with girls, it might very well work :).

I do not mean that taking your dick out and waving it around will make her go down on you on the street (yet it's pretty possible, by the way).
What can be useful - is the looks (eyes), the movements, the gait, the voice - all this can very good affect your own seduction skills.

So, watch Sex Movies at SmartsSex.com, and have your seduction skills boost, and let yourself be happy now!



Sex Skills Emotion is needed!

Bob, 16th Aug 2008, 17:53 CEST

Plan out sexual acts is pointless if emotion is not behind them. You truly do not get satisfied without emotion.
Plus it's way better. The interaction is stronger from both parties and the climax's are top notch.
There has to be passion for me. I'm a huge romantic anyways.
This is just my opinion so don't take it to seriously please.



Sex Skills Seduction

SmarTy, 9th Aug 2008, 22:25 CEST

Sex Skills will be divided into sections soon, I think.
For those training with and graduates of Sex.Enhappy.com seduction training.

Yeah, right, guys (and girls :)), we'll be descussing a lot of seduction and pickup in here:

  • Field Reports - where me and others will be posting the processes of seducing real girls, probably with photos, and for sure - detailed.
    We'll need you guys to rate it, which means a standard pickup FB (feedback), consisting of two things - what was good, and what could be improved.

  • Strategies / Tactics - again me and friends (you) will post their methods of seducing - whole things, or parts (how to bring home, how to first kiss etc) for all of us to learn/try and improve your own seduction results ;).

  • Meetings - yeah, right. We want to see you, come to your city and light it up with the most beautiful girls. SmartsSex.com together with Sex.Enhappy.com will be randomly choosing within you guys a few people per month probably, and once a month we'll fly to wherever you live to test you, practice ourself, and have fun!


And of course, girls, we love you, so you are welcome to join both discussions and meetings :).
We guys and you girls love each other, it's inner, so don't even think of hiding it :).

And now, have fun, and add ideas if you have any :).



Sex Skills Lasting Longer - for Men

SmarTy, 2nd Aug 2008, 20:26 CEST

Well, I think there are very many docs on a subject of "How to last longer in sex?".
It also is referred to as "How to avoid premature ejaculation?" or "What is a female orgasm?" :).

What I want to say, that sex is a lot of psychology and inner things than technics or tips and tricks. Which means that there are just some things to understand, rather than to learn to do. And ejaculation, too, belongs here :).

Firstly, recommended is try to forget that you ever will be coming at all.
Just enjoy this very second, making it last as long as you can.

That's about overall process. Just think of it :).

Next, remember girls can be pleased without using your dick at all :).
Which means, if you ever suddenly recall you can come, and you feel as you can soon, but you see your girl's not ready yet, then try the following.

Stick it out of her, and.. well, we're all different, but do what you would have done if you did not know how to have sex. Stroke, kiss, tease, caress..
Once again, forget about your dick).

Then just keep doing it :).

Maybe this seems a bit incomplete and selective, but that's what coming to mind.
If you know anymore on this, feel free :).



Sex Skills Ten Rules to enjoyable Anal Sex

Nick, 12th May 2008, 09:25 CEST

1. Anal intercourse is the least frequently practiced form of anal sex.

There are many ways to enjoy the anus erotically. The most common techniques include touching the anal opening with a finger while masturbating or stimulating a partner's anus during intercourse or oral sex.

Some people enjoy the sensation of a lubricated finger -- their own or a lover's -- inserted into their anal opening and gently rotated. Others may prefer the insertion of a lubricated dildo or vibrator beyond the anal opening and short anal canal into the larger rectum. Many men, including heterosexuals, favor this form of penetration.

Oral-anal lovemaking is popularly known as rimming. Some people enjoy performing it or allowing themselves to be probed in this special way. Using a dental dam is a way to ensure safe rimming.

2. Anal stimulation, including intercourse, is not painful if done properly.

The belief that anal stimulation, especially intercourse, has to hurt is a persistent and dangerous myth. Just as pain anywhere in the body indicates that something is wrong, so is the same true of the anal area. With its high concentrations of nerve endings, the anus can produce extreme agony when it is mistreated. Yet it can also be a source of great pleasure.

When a lubricated finger, object or penis... (continued)



Sex Skills Anal Sex for Amateurs!

Dwayne, 1st Mar 2008, 05:15 CET

Being a gay man, many people have asked me how I can handle anal sex. First off, to be honest, I'm gay because I like guys, not because I love to have things shoved up my ass. Thus, anal sex is not gay sex. It is sex involving the anus.

This is a common misconception because many straight guys freak out at the thought of someone touching their anus. Honestly, the anus is a source of much pleasure. There's no shame in pleasure. Just realize that anal sex is not gay sex.

Also, many women are turned off about gay sex because of the intense pain that is often felt when you first start. This, ladies, is because many men are too selfish to take their time and make it good for you. Don't let a man come near your anus if you can't trust him to be slow and easy. It's important to realize that anal sex isn't just about thrusting.

Many people freak out about analingus because it seems kinda gross. Well, honestly, that just means you gotta clean up. I've found that enema bottles and/or douche bottles are great ways to clean out your rectum. Just be sure to empty the bottles and use the bottles with warm water, not enema or douche. Irrigate several times, until it comes out clean. Then clean the outside with soap and water. Your ready to go.

Now, some people find it more of a turn on to ea... (continued)



Sex Skills do men think all time about sex?

BOB, 25th Feb 2008, 04:42 CET

Of course not, we think too often in football and beer.
While it is often said that men think sex every six seconds, you can be sure that it is exaggerated.
Men spend a good part of each day to imagine what it would be to sleep with miss world, but we are not as obsessed with sex as most women believe. I would say that men think sex at regular intervals throughout the day. Not constantly, but in brief flashes.
When people think sex, they do so in a rather innocent and harmless. I rarely found in the process of having thoughts of style "anal gangbang porno movie" about the woman standing beside me in the bus ...
Naturally it is impossible to quantify precisely how many times people think sex in a day, but you ask yourself about how many times you think about it and you will be almost.
One thing is certain, men spend much more time thinking about sex, as do so.



Sex Skills An obvious tip, with a story to go with it, of course.

dave, 22nd Feb 2008, 10:29 CET

One time, I met this chick at a bar. We were really into each other, so after a while we went to her place. After fooling around a little bit, she started going down on me. I was so relaxed that I accidentally let one rip. What happened next was extremely embarassing. She suddenly stopped going down on me and shouted at me to get out of her house. She then pushed me out her door without my clothes. I had to walk home naked. The moral of the story is don't fart when a girl is going down on you.






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